Hello, I have been having sex for two years now, and neither my partners or myself are able to make me orgasm. I have been in a relationship for eight months now, and me not being able to orgasm really makes my boyfriend feel self-conscious and is taking a toll on our relationship. Please help! from Anonymous
You have got yourself a very delicate situation. It could be many factors influencing your inability to orgasm. I had someone ask me something similar (kind of) a while back and I suggested that they visit a blog on tumblr that, from what I have read, helps many women find themselves. The blog is called Orgasm Tips for Girls and I feel its legit. You should take a stroll there see if anything echoes with you.
If not, and your problem continues, I would go as far as suggesting therapy of some kind. There could be a seed planted a long time ago that is subconsciously affecting your ability to cross that line… I would hate for you to never resolve this… Everyone deserves a great love life…
Be as proactive as you can in resolving the matter. Good luck!